happiness 幸福

其实幸福很简单～～～
只要你还睡得着，
　　　还吃得下，
　　　　还会笑。
你已经很幸福了，不是吗？

突然想到？？？

刚刚突然想到一个...............ermm.......算是理论吧！是关于情侣之间的~~~虽然我还没有女友，但是我尝试从他们的角度看，应该是吧？
如果有一对情侣，女的异性缘很好，每天都周转在男生群里，虽然女生心里真的只是当他们是brother,但是男生多多少少应该还是会有一点介意吧！
这时候男生要怎么做呢？
跟女友说他不喜欢她这样？
或则跟女友的朋友说少接近她？？？？？？？
以上的方法都会使彼此的感情弄得非常糟糕~~~
我觉得男方最好的解决方法还是，找些方法来增进你们之间的感情吧！
因为如果你用前面那两个方法，他们不但不会改变，而且会对你的感情大大减分。
如果你用下脑筋仔细想想，其实真的可能一餐晚餐，一个旅行，一份小礼物等等
女方就会感到开心，而且对你大大加分，自然而然就会自我思考，还会对你更好。
或许女方还是会继续混在男生群里，可是至少你知道，那个女孩还是爱着你，你也自然会减少醋气。

迟来的感觉，早来的机会

对不起，我等你。

BE YOURSELF

When you are in a bad mood~~~ sometime you will need a people to console you, talk with you or just listen your words.  Maybe some friend will give you some suggestion or alternative, at that time probably you will follow your friend opinion~~~but think properly, if you follow your friend suggestion, that is not you~~ you just act as a people as your friend need and not you.
Suggestion by others is important, but independent thinking for yourself is more important.
Think what you want?
Think what you dont want?
Think what you can do?
Think what you cant do?
Think if you do that, is that you? or just act to be that?
If you act to be that kind of people, probably you will just become that kind of people in a short term period.
In a long term period, you will become back as you. so that why you act?

IF YOU JUST ACT AS A PEOPLE, YOU WILL BE VERY STRESS AND PAINFUL AT LAST.